The Story of Haru Behind the Ultrasound Photo A Mother Who Is Viral
Jakarta, at a glance, this ultrasound picture can look casual. But the story behind her makes this mother's ultrasound image viral. Like what the story? This ultrasound is owned by a mother named Emily Christine when she is 8 weeks pregnant. Emily said, it becomes a thrill when he will perform an ultrasound at the time. However, the facts say another. The picture looks different from what many of my female friends have uploaded and I am searching on the internet about how the ultrasound images look at 8 weeks' gestation. I did not see anything as it turned out, I just had a miscarriage a few hours earlier, Emily wrote on the photo she uploaded on her Facebook page. The USG and Emily's husband tried to calm Emily. But he was sure there was something wrong with him. At that time, Emily said, she was afraid to cry. Like any mother, Emily's feelings ruined her when she found out she lost her baby. The doctor did not let me leave without warning of her. Only, he does not tell everything that will happen after this event. He did not tell me that my body needed time to 'clean up', he did not tell me that I should see my husband sad, he did not tell me how to tell my mother he did not tell me how I told my other people just fine when you're okay, Emily said. At that moment the doctor invited Emily to cry and assured her that Emily was not alone, but she still felt alone. Emily says the true miscarriage is a common thing and really can happen. However, Emily still feel alone because no one is talking about this because the miscarriage is still considered taboo. People may think why I want to share my story but this I do to help my recovery process. I just want to share with other women who have miscarried and remind them that they are not alone. There is hope after the sadness that we feel this, Emily added.Read also: Sophisticated 4D ultrasound, Can See Fetal Conditions in Real Time ConditionSejak uploaded on January 17 last, Emily ultrasound images have been distributed by more than 34 thousand netizens. A total of 4,968 netisen also delivered their comments. Most netizens expressed their condolences and gratitude for Emily sharing her experiences. Not a few netizens who also share their experiences during miscarriage. Related to the miscarriage experienced by the prospective mother, family psychologist Anna Surti Ariani MPsi, Psychologist or Nina said cry when a miscarriage is okay. Because, basically negative emotions are not to be stored but expressed. Like a bottle of dirty water, then the water must be removed first before filled with clean water.For relatives and friends were expected to be more wise in entertaining the prospective mother, as well as prospective father. If you want to talk, try to use neutral words. For example 'I'm losing' or 'I'm sorry'. According to Nina, do not say 'later there is also a replacement'. Because, the fetus is a person and will not be replaceable.In addition, do not say also that a few percent of pregnant women will experience a miscarriage. Although medically the data exists, when the sentence was pronounced post a miscarriage will cause the impression melaks.Kalau we also have experienced it can say Eh your daughter already given the name yet? later our children can meet tuh and play together in heaven '. Or coincidentally his father who was not there, can say 'later my father can invite to play your son yes'. So kay can really on some people make him more calm while still sad, Nina said.Read also: Do not Forget, Father Candidates Also Need Support Post Natural Wife Miscarriage (rdn / up)
